But how do you know,before you join the group,whether it is alegitimate group,or a dangerous cult? After all,both Jesus and the Buddha led small groups of homeless,unemployed men. Also the people who recruit members to these groups are quite good at what they do. When you attend your first meeting,you find yourself surrounded by very kind people. The speaker is very gogd,and often says just what you want to hear. Tou will no doubt find an atmosphere of caring,friendship and support.
But the danger signs are there. They will ask you for a donation,or to "help out" by buying something. This is usually a pamphlet or small booklet for which you for personal information,such as your address and phone number,andwhere you if you stop going. They sometimes might gather from time to time at some remote location,such as a campsite or compound. these"retreats" can last for several days, or for a few weeks. Again, the members will usually be separated, adults from children, men from women. Eventually the members will move to a location where they can live together as a community,or "family".
Of course,these and other characteristics are not proof positive that the groups have some of these same characteristics. But remember this*there is nothing in religion that you must do except believe in your faith. We should be very careful about groups that coerce their members to think otherwise.
